have you ever thought that one day you could lose someone that you love or close with? how would be the feeling like? and what would you do?
i wanna share my conversation with one of the "ustazah" in my workplace (actually i love being along & among the "ustazah" and "ustaz" coz they are the most resourceful person when it comes to motivation, self-confidence, beliefs & faith) well...she told me that her late husband explained to her that he'll give 60% of his time to the wife and the other percentage will go to his time with friends and other things that he enjoyed doing it. a similar thought was told by my senior back in my first degree studies, she also reminds me of not giving a 100% to what we like or love..reason is when all these are gone we will not feel totally down and upset because of the lost. i guess that is what i have applied in my life of not giving a 100% portion into what i like and love because i realised that one day it could all be gone.
with all things happen around me such as loosing friends ( i never consider them as friends coz they are not there when u need them)..yup loosing these people has never affected my life in total because i know that they are gone for good...and i also got the best thing..enjoying my life and moment to the fullest!
