Few days ago i was thinking about commitment in a relationship..yup!! single but not available. the kind of realationship that single ladies want probably is the one that will last longer or maybe it is too cliche' because we realised that in reality things aren't the same way as we want it to be..but friend of mine gives me some thought that we still can give it a go coz he said that life is full of suprises...its not going to be the same and dull from begining to the end. sometimes we argue, we fight, we quarrel, hate each other(?)...that is life and that makes life more meaningful. I guess all his experiences has taught him a better lesson for life (he's actually my best friend's hubby) but i'm like their "marriage councellor"...really??...you better believe it!.
Being in the relationship could be a new horizon or maybe a new adventure for a single who believe that man and woman need each other or better say complete each other. But being a single but not available also demand the commitment from each parties (both venus & mars) and the ignorance to this will cloud the realationship and later resulted on one party to demand a "pit stop"...yup! you can call it a rest or break or whatever the terms that you use to describe the quit. It is worse when you involved in "PJJ"....erm long-distance relationship..both must be willing to trust each other even though it is hardly possible to do that. If there is no more trust or commitment would you consider to let it go or just bare with it? This is where your innerself is being put into dilemma that needs your wise decision and trust from yourself. Just believe in what you take coz you know that you have made the right decision after your wise decision.
