Monday, February 1, 2010

people come and go


have you ever thought that one day you could lose someone that you love or close with? how would be the feeling like? and what would you do?
i wanna share my conversation with one of the "ustazah" in my workplace (actually i love being along & among the "ustazah" and "ustaz" coz they are the most resourceful person when it comes to motivation, self-confidence, beliefs & faith) well...she told me that her late husband explained to her that he'll give 60% of his time to the wife and the other percentage will go to his time with friends and other things that he enjoyed doing it. a similar thought was told by my senior back in my first degree studies, she also reminds me of not giving a 100% to what we like or love..reason is when all these are gone we will not feel totally down and upset because of the lost. i guess that is what i have applied in my life of not giving a 100% portion into what i like and love because i realised that one day it could all be gone.
with all things happen around me such as loosing friends ( i never consider them as friends coz they are not there when u need them)..yup loosing these people has never affected my life in total because i know that they are gone for good...and i also got the best thing..enjoying my life and moment to the fullest!